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Themes

Contents

Building Relationships

Building relationships on many different levels (Bridge to Terabithia DVD-Bonus Feature-Behind the Book) In Bridge to Terabithia, these relationships include:

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Friendship/Belonging

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Trust

Like the theme of “Making Connections” Trust is a theme that runs through the story on different levels between characters.

  • Trust between Jesse and Leslie is exhibited when Leslie takes the “initial” swing from the rope over the creek when they first discover it. When she describes her experience to Jesse, she does it in a way that makes Jesse trust that it will be okay in spite of the rope’s age. (Paterson, K., Bridge to Terabithia, 1977)
  • In spite of their gender differences and family backgrounds (social and economic), Jesse and Leslie are able to build their relationship and trust for each other on their common interests (artistic imagination and running) and their personal experiences (feeling alone and lonely in the world) in spite of parents who love them deep down but who don’t have enough time to spend with them along with having difficulty making friends who can like them for who they are. (DVD-Bonus Feature-Beyond the Book-2007)
  • Once building up the courage to approach Janice who is crying in the girls’ restroom, Leslie is able to let her guard down in order to allow Janice to let her guard and “bully” image down to confide in Leslie and tell her about the physical abuse that she suffers from her father. (Paterson, K., Bridge to Terabithia,1977)
  • In spite of his “crush” on Miss Edmunds, Jesse is able to let himself trust Miss Edmunds when she picks him up to go to Washington, but still wonders on the way and throughout the day if he should have invited Leslie to go with them so that she can also enjoy the museum and its special exhibits. (Paterson, K., Bridge to Terabithia, 1977)
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Accepting Differences/Tolerance

In spite of what Jesse has been taught about gender roles by his family and attitudes of his surrounding community, Jesse is able to move beyond the gender stereotypes of how males and females and especially how girls and boys should act and dress like. There are at least three examples of this:

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Imagination

A trait that both Jesse and Leslie share in different ways, but that brings them together, cultivates their friendship and maintains it until Leslie dies unexpectedly.

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Fear

This is a major theme that is mainly experienced and challenged most by Jesse throughout the story, although Leslie experiences it at least once.

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Caring for Others/Emotional Support

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Generosity/Giving

Giving is considered an important theme in Bridge to Terabithia. Jesse, Leslie, and Miss Edmunds give of themselves both emotionally and materially in several parts of the story.

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Death/Loss/Grief/Transcendence

The authors of the article, "Coping with Grief" utilize the definition of grieving proposed by Pfohl, Jimerson, and Lazarus: “Grieving is defined as personal thoughts and feelings associated with loss.” (Pfohl, Jimerson, & Lazarus, 2002; Worden, 1996) Any loss that triggers a child’s grief is experienced on a “continuum of severity.” (Heath, M., Leavy, D., 2008) While children are for the most part unique in their grief, they also experience many similar emotional and physical reactions in their reaction to death and loss. Although adults and parents want and hope to protect their children from the harsh realities of life, “all children will inevitably face the challenge of coping with loss.” (Heath, M. et. al., 2008). Furthermore, due to childhood innocence, vulnerability, and lack of well-developed coping skills, a child’s grief is much more complicated than most adults who would suffer a similar loss. (Heath, M. et. al, 2008).

Although many dying patients, experience the five stages of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance that Elizabeth Kübler Ross developed in her book, On Death and Dying, these stages have also been applied to the grieving experience. Elizabeth Kübler Ross, however, does caution people to be aware that grief is a process and not to expect that these stages will always be linear and orderly. (Huntley, T., 2002). Theresa Huntley in her book, Helping Children Grieve, provides a general listing of the stages of grief including the following which is very similar to what Jesse experienced after hearing that Leslie died:

  1. Shock and disbelief
  2. Searching and yearning
  3. Disorganization and despair
  4. Rebuilding and healing
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